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How advice is given in Spanish, and how it is received
The grammar here is straightforward; the register is the part worth attention. Spanish advice is given more directly than British advice and less prescriptively than it might sound to an English ear. Yo no me precipitaría states a position rather than hedging round one, and deberías is an ordinary thing to say to a friend rather than a reprimand. What softens it is the conditional itself: putting the whole thing in yo haría frames it explicitly as what the speaker would do, which leaves the decision where it belongs. That is why Sofía can be blunt and then say la decisión es mía without contradiction. Two things to avoid. The first is over-hedging: stacking a conditional inside a question inside an apology — no sé, quizás podrías tal vez considerar — reads as evasive rather than polite, and a Spaniard may conclude you have no view. The second is tienes que, which is much stronger than you have to in English and lands as an instruction. Use deberías. One useful cultural note about how advice is received. It is normal to ask several people the same question and to discuss a decision at length and in public — with friends, with family, over a long lunch. This is not indecision and it is not a request for permission; consulting widely is how a decision gets made, and a person who decides something significant without talking it through may be thought slightly cold rather than admirably self-reliant. Alex's entonces la decisión es mía is him checking that the conversation has not become a committee, and Sofía's desde luego confirms it has not.